I am living with my sister for awhile now, and I am paying for rent, utilities, paper towels, toilets paper, then I have to pay my own phone, food, health insurance. She said that she will pay me back after she finishes her schooling. She has another 7 years to go and she is 58 years old and I have my doubts about her paying me back. She also has me washing my dishes in the bathtub because the sink is broken and we are using a bucket in the sink to wash dishes. I have diabetes and have not gotten my medication for about 1 1/2 years. I'm living in Northern California and would like to move back to Redlands. I don't go to church but I do watch Grege Laurie on my lab top. My sister feels I don't think for my self that why she handles my money that I do not pay attention a lot of the time so she gets up set with me a lot. If you see her doing that to me it feel like elderly abuse. She claims that is the way she is. I have no access to my checking account, my e-trade, or my social secuity.